The majority of American adults maintain social media accounts actively. Whether they log on daily or weekly, their use of social media is both common and purposeful. Oftentimes, individuals discover that simply posting about a major life event serves to notify many interested parties at once, which saves time and effort when compared to sending texts or emails to every person who might want to know what is going on. As a result of this convenience, if you find that you are tempted to post about your divorce process on social media, you are certainly not alone.
You may even be tempted to post about your divorce as a form of catharsis, processing your experience, and connecting with others who likely want to support you during this major life transition. However, it is important to refrain from indulging this instinct, no matter how well-meaning your posting habits tend to be.
Your Social Media Posts Could Be Used Adversely
Even if it is likely that your divorce will proceed amicably, it is important to safeguard your interests in case things take a turn for the worse. Just as a prosecutor in a criminal case might scroll a defendant’s social media feed in search of evidence to undermine their defense, so might your spouse or their attorney seek to use your social media activity against you. And even if you only ever post in truly conscientious ways, keep in mind that it is not very difficult to twist another’s words and images for someone’s personal aims.
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